I haven’t really kept my family super up-to-date on what is going on because I don’t have a lot of concrete answers yet other than, I feel shitty and the doctors keep poking me with needles, and I keep seeing specialist, and yeah. Anyways.
I finally told my grandma that we are pursing the lupus route, and then she told me “OH! We have people in our family with lupus!”
Most notably, my own mother. (Who I have no contact with, so I had not idea.)